April 29, 2012

Hapily ever after...

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Assalamualaikum...
Marriage is where your life with new episodes, what is important is how a partner to maintain the couple's meaning. Always supportive each other .Fairy tale tells the story full of tragedy and ends with life Happily ever after. Dreams of children are often so, when we feel the real life, then we know the true meaning of life. Every one of us want a good end, so far, only Allah knows. We are just ordinary people that is born in this world to be tested, signs he loves us, so we are not unmindful of world preoccupation.

Clearly, we are only human, who has a soft and weak heart. Each person can cry and regret with something. However, what we go through in life, is the bridge that Allah arranged for us to get hold of eternal life. Sometimes we think we are mature enough to get through something, but we are wrong, but by going through something difficult that is, we learn the meaning of maturity. I admit it hurts to have something that is very difficult to be accepted, more and more it has to pass through the days. If only real life is like facebook, I can block people I do not like, it is certain that I will block all the people that I was not comfortable with. After that I can pass happily life ever after. but it's all impossible right ..?

Very painful for us silent on a something, when we want to speak but we can not, because maybe we do not qualify, because we might hurt the feelings of anyone. Very difficult for us to satisfy the feelings of all people, who may be difficult to accept our weaknesses and will always look for our weaknesses. At the time, we may be more vulnerable and continue to give way.

Every day I went through this life with a bold move, and leave it to fate. But I am just ordinary people who cannot away from make mistakes. But I still dream of real happiness with my husband, which I always dreamed of. Prior to this, Allah  has fulfilled my dream of a new life, I will not let some people who are harassing me enjoy the happiness that has been and will be present. Maybe we are not quite mature through life alone, but difficult to get through this life if there are people who continue to dominate.Well, each person has their own ego, although it is often annoying to others, an ego bruise once in a while, for the better, i feel is necessary. Its difficult if we keep think about what other people think, it would take away the feeling of tranquility and happiness in life. Try to think positively is advice that will always accepted, but not easy if every day we have to face it.

 You are what you make yourself to be. So, be brave and patient with all the misfortunes that had gone through. I am very grateful for having a husband who is always there for me, I always see him try his best and give the best for everybody happy, and never run away from responsibility as servants of Allah.. Alhamdulillah.. thank you Allah.. 

We plan but Allah’s plans change ours. We waste so much time trying to understand things that only He understands. Don’t even think you’re smart enough to figure out what’s going on we want to be in control and know everything but you have to realise that there’s going to be a whole lot of stuff we are never going to mentally understand. We need to get that in our heart and learn to trust Him... whatever you do, DO it FOR ALLAH.. insya`Allah ^^


April 26, 2012

Creating a Sustained Awareness of Allah

Posted by Lyla 0 comments

Creating a Sustained Awareness of Allah


  • How can you ensure that your life as a whole, every moment of it, is devoted to the remembrance of Allah? Below are four states of consciousness that we can strive to develop by remembering certain things and create an inner dhikr.
  • ONE:
  • Say to yourself - I am in God's presence, He is watching me (58: 7)
  • Be aware that everything you do, every word you say, Allah is ever present and His knowledge is all encompassing
  • TWO:
  • Say to yourself - Everything I have, has been gifted to me by Allah (14: 32)
  • Reflect upon your blessings and be grateful. Every time your heart beats, it does so with the permission of Allah
  • THREE:
  • Say to yourself - Nothing in this world can happen without His permission (6: 17)
  • Know that everything lies in the hands of Allah. No harm can befall you and no benefit can reach you except as Allah wills
  • FOUR:
  • Say to yourself - I am going to return to Allah one day and that day could be today (2: 156)
  • Always be conscious of this uncertainty. Let it motivate you to spend your time wisely

  • May Allah make us enter Paradise through any of it’s gates.AAMEEN, Allah knows best

Buat Sahabat

Posted by Lyla 0 comments
Bismillahirahmanirahiim...
Assalamualaikum wbt...

 Dalam memilih sahabat kita hendaklah memilih sahabat yang baik agar segala matlamat dan hasrat untuk memperjuangkan Islam dapat dilaksanakan bersama-sama sahabat yang mulia. Sucikanlah 4 hal dengan 4 perkara :
"Wajahmu dengan linangan air mata keinsafan, Lidahmu basah dengan berzikir kepada Penciptamu, Hatimu takut dan gementar kepada kehebatan Rabbmu, ..dan dosa-dosa yang silam di sulami dengan taubat kepada Dzat yang Memiliki mu."

Alhamdulillah... 22 tahun diberikan ana peluang menikmati kehidupan ini. Mengimbas kembali saat ana mula-mula merubah arah hidup untuk yang lebih nyata, saat kesenderian dan kini memiliki sahabat yang sungguh indah pekertinya. Dari mereka daku mengenal erti hidup, apa yang penting mengenal apa itu sahabat sebenarnya. 

Mengimbas kembali lagi saat perkenalan, siapa sangka pertemuan yang dimulakan di alam maya (FB etc.) akhirnya bersua jua. Sama seperti perkenalan dengan suami. FB banyak merubah hidup ana, Semua bukan kehendak kita , tapi semua telah ditakdirkan Allah SWT, Subhanallah indahnya jika diingat kembali segalanya saat mula segalanya hingga saat ini.

Alhamdulilah, semoga ukhwah yang terjalin ini sentiasa dicurahi rahmat Nya, di isi dengan sesuatu yang bermanfaat dengan segala ruang yg ada, disulami keikhlasan semata-mata kerana Allah SWT...

Bersyukur kepada Allah SWT atas sahabat-sahabat yang ana miliki sekarang, bersahabat hingga ke Syurga.. amin ya rabbal alamin. Insya`Allah.. ^^


Antara kenangan yang telah diukir sepanjang perkenalan, betapa rindunya kepada meraka.. Salam syg buat sahabat.. Doa ana sentiasa mengiringi... 



Kenapa Lelaki Sanggup Berbelanja Tinggi untuk Mendapat Seorang Isteri?

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Kenapa Lelaki Sanggup Berbelanja Tinggi untuk Mendapat Seorang Isteri?


Kenapa seorang lelaki sanggup berbelanja beratus malah beribu ringgit semata-mata untuk mendapatkan seorang isteri? 

Seorang lelaki sanggup berbelanja beratus malah beribu ringgit semata-mata untuk mendapatkan seorang isteri kerana untuk mengisi permintaan hati (fitrah)nya yang ingin kepada belaian dan penyerahan seorang wanita, layanan dan kemanjaan serta pengurusan dirinya oleh isteri. Dan lebih jauh dari itu untuk mendapatkan anak dan keriangan dalam rumahtangga. Semua itu adalah tuntutan semulajadi yang ada dalam diri semua lelaki dan tidak boleh tidak, wajib dipenuhi. 


Kalau tuntutan itu tidak diisi, jadilah kekosongan dan kesunyian dalam ruang dada si suami itu. Kalau begitu tiadalah bermakna lagi rumahtangga, isteri dan anak-anak padanya. Suami tidak akan bahagia dan hatinya tidak akan tenang sekalipun rumahnya besar, wangnya bertimbun dan dililiti dengan segala kemewahan.


Tidak akan terhibur hati suami kalau rumahtangga dan anak pinak berkecamuk, tidak terurus. Tidak akan bahagia suami yang berdepan dengan sikap dan cakap-cakap isteri yang tidak menumpukan sepenuh kasih sayang padanya. Bertambah-tambah tidak bahagia lagilah bagi seorang suami itu bila isterinya lebih menjaga kepentingan diri sendiri dari memenuhi kehendak dan kemahuan suami.
                                                                                                            


Assalamualaikum..

Menarik kan artikel ni, dr halaqah.net.

Alhamdulillah, ade hikmahnye setiap apa yang kita baca even lihat.
Teringat kembali saat mula-mula hendak berkahwin, memang sangat banyak suami keluarkan duit untuk menyempurnakan majlis, semata-mata ingin memiliki ana sebagai isterinya.
Merenung kembali kesilapan sebagai isteri, muhasabah diri. Adakah layanan dan tanggungjawab dilaksanakan sebaiknya. Terima kasih ya Allah ats petunjuk dan hidayah Mu. Mungkin segala kesibukan mungkin telah menyimpang dari tanggungjawab dan pembahagian masa untuk rumahtangga. 


Buat Suami yang teramatlah disayangi, terima kasih atas segala pengorbanan dan kasih sayang. Atas kebaran melayan karena isterimu yg pelbagai. Insya`Allah isterimu akan mencuba yg terbaik lagi untuk menjadi sebaik-baiknya.. :) 
Amin, Insya`Allah.. 



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